We aren’t defined by laws or the morals laid down by the profits of non-existent gods, or even the rules of our community. We are only defined by the true gods that are our minds.
Able to truly create if given the trust and license to do so, our minds are our only real possession, and our only wealth.
The great challenge each of us face is forging an alliance with our minds, a partnership of mutual respect. Most people will never be anything but servants of a mind programmed by others, a cart leading a sad horse to the barren wasteland of other people’s hopes and dreams.
Our only escape is to work to know and accept ourselves, invite our wayward mind to be our team mate, our true partner in crime. Then as a whole and congruent being we can strive for our own betterment with the other travellers brave enough to be their truth.

Hebari


 

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Cutting Professionally

It’s funny how things progress over time. A year ago I was doing a lot of rope and was beginning to do light cuttings on my partner at the time. They weren’t very deep and mostly for play or photography, some we did more than once. It was a really sexual and sensual connection, sharing […]
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The Prison of Our MInds

We aren’t defined by laws or the morals laid down by the profits of non-existent gods, or even the rules of our community. We are only defined by the true gods that are our minds. Able to truly create if given the trust and license to do so, our minds are our only real possession, […]
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Scalpels and Blades

I thought it might be useful to write a post about the tools I use and why I use them. Firstly the type of scarification I do uses a scalpel to either cut a line into the flesh or to remove sections of skin. The handles I prefer are round dental scalpel handles like the […]
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Unconscious Competence

With rope education we are always talking about competence, ego, getting students to slow down and focus on depth rather than breadth, don’t jump ahead yada yada and on it goes. The thing about learning a skill is that it’s bloody boring, it starts out as exciting, the prospect of the wonders to be unlocked, […]
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Connective Rope

This may seem obvious but sensual rope is about engaging the senses and what may surprise you is there are more than 5. We all know about sight, sound, touch, taste and smell, all first order senses what is often missed are not strictly speaking senses but I’m going to take some poetic license. Sense […]
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Are men allowed to hurt?

As men are we allowed to hurt? Weaken ourselves to feel the pain of emotion? Let our partners down by failing to be calm and strong? As a dom and a man, what weakness are we allowed, what is too much? Is uncertainty an infraction, Then surely crying must be a sin. If we have […]
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