Cutting Professionally

It’s funny how things progress over time. A year ago I was doing a lot of rope and was beginning to do light cuttings on my partner at the time. They weren’t very deep and mostly for play or photography, some we did more than once. It was a really sexual and sensual connection, sharing […]
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The Prison of Our MInds

We aren’t defined by laws or the morals laid down by the profits of non-existent gods, or even the rules of our community. We are only defined by the true gods that are our minds. Able to truly create if given the trust and license to do so, our minds are our only real possession, […]
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Scalpels and Blades

I thought it might be useful to write a post about the tools I use and why I use them. Firstly the type of scarification I do uses a scalpel to either cut a line into the flesh or to remove sections of skin. The handles I prefer are round dental scalpel handles like the […]
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Unconscious Competence

With rope education we are always talking about competence, ego, getting students to slow down and focus on depth rather than breadth, don’t jump ahead yada yada and on it goes. The thing about learning a skill is that it’s bloody boring, it starts out as exciting, the prospect of the wonders to be unlocked, […]
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Connective Rope

This may seem obvious but sensual rope is about engaging the senses and what may surprise you is there are more than 5. We all know about sight, sound, touch, taste and smell, all first order senses what is often missed are not strictly speaking senses but I’m going to take some poetic license. Sense […]
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Are men allowed to hurt?

As men are we allowed to hurt? Weaken ourselves to feel the pain of emotion? Let our partners down by failing to be calm and strong? As a dom and a man, what weakness are we allowed, what is too much? Is uncertainty an infraction, Then surely crying must be a sin. If we have […]
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Rope Play Top 4

Jokes about what is the right way to tie, or what is or isn’t twue rope aside. I love tying in lots of different ways sitting down in learning mode and working out a tie is great, not sexy but great fun and very rewarding. I love doing circus rope for shows and I also […]
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How long does it take?

This is a question I get asked a lot. It’s a bit like asking how long it will take to get fit, it depends on how much work you are prepared to put in and how much you are prepared to put your ego aside. As someone once said you can’t learn something you already […]
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I Want Raw

I don’t hurt you because I want to see you in pain, I hurt you to see you push though it To see the layers of civilisation slip away and the raw person underneath exposed To taste your tears of release and achievement when you do more than you ever thought you could To hear […]
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Sexpo 2016

This year I have been asked to teach and perform at Sexpo in Sydney. It’s lovely to have been asked and to be able to share the art I love with so many people, but from chatting to the organisers, it’s also indicative of the new format of Sexpo. What for a long time has […]
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